Anon, I don't know how to put this diplomatically, but while I know I am slow with characters outside my CR - and that largely because my CR tends to bug me when I get behind on tags - I can't see what you're talking about on posts meant for specific CR. I tend to leave things open because I do desire replies from other people. It's possible that it comes down to my admittedly terrible backtagging habits, too, and this entire weekend is kind of a bad example, since I haven't had regular computer access for nearly a week. But even going back several months, I can't find an example of an unlocked post that was intended for only a couple of people.

Mind you, I am aware that speaks to a different problem. I know I have problems with getting to tags; that largely works out to a motivation issue dealing with a mountain of backtags. I do try to get to things, but I am aware I need to pick up the pace, and I apologize if you're asking because I dropped something. I really do want to make an effort to catch up on everything - it's a large part of why I am remaining at one character. Thanks for your input, and if there's something obvious I'm missing, I would appreciate it being called to my attention.